I’m a 40 year old, single, independent, submissive, open minded, honest, real, and very confident woman that has been in the lifestyle for over 5 years who can also have a Brat side at times for sure. I am bisexual which may not be everyone’s cup of tea. However, l do enjoy being with Men and Women depending on the situation as well as the opportunity that presents itself at the time. ( I’ve never been with a man and woman together at the same time though! ) l did a lot of research into the BDSM lifestyle, kinks, role play, and other things when l started wanting to try certain things that ***ked my interest/curiousity after ending a 5 year relationship with someone who never wanted to go more than 5 minutes nor even opentheir mind to anything new in the bedroom. So naturally l decided to look into different things further which brought me to the BDSM world. It didn’t take long to find out that there are fake Doms that only play the lifestyle and aren’t truly into the lifestyle for the right reasons. Due to my first experience into the BDSM world being such a negative experience I’m glad that I had other friends that were in the lifestyle or I may not have continued my journey. Real Recognize Real so trust I know exactly what I am looking for and refuse to entertain bull**** or anyone that is not truly who they say they are. So please don’t waste either one of our time if you are fake, in a drama situation, or trying to play games just go ahead and skip talking to me because I won’t entertain non-sense. I love to have fun and enjoy life to the fullest. Due to my job I now have to not show my face however I am willing to send face pics or videos privately.
Men… I’m open to a Dom, Bull, or Daddy when it comes to a man as l want, need, and crave certain dominance from a man in the bedroom. I do only choose to be intimate with black men as this has been my preference since I was younger. I only want to be intimate with someone who lives the lifestyle not just try’s to play the role without knowledge. I am looking to build trust with a man, have clear expectations as to what is wanted/expected on both ends, open communication, new experiences, fun, fantasies fulfilled, understanding, respect, etc… I know the difference between a real Dom, Daddy, Bull, and not interested in anyone faking the lifestyle just for sex or games. If you aren't willing to meet up in person, then don't bother even sending me a message or wasting my time. I'm not looking for a one night stand or just sex at all and have no problem ending the meeting if l see that your true intentions are not genuine in the lifestyle. I am looking for real experiences not phone play. Looking to maybe even record some new content with someone down to make it happen!!! Lol 😆
lf you want the title then it's not a one day process so don't ask me to call you Daddy, Sir, or Any Titlement if you haven't claimed me as your submissive which is not done over night... If aftercare is not part of our dynamic then no need to waste either one of our time even trying to talk about anything. If I choose to submit to you and take you as my Dom then I expect as your submissive to be given the attention, pleasure, security, and comfort I need after you take me the way you crave.*
lf you Do Not Believe that a Dom should orally satisfy their Submissive and that your Submissive should only orally satisfy you... Then again there is no reason to even communicate with me. A True Dom understands the meaning of his Sub being completely 100% Submissive to him and allowing him to take you to your limits with every aspect of him claiming you and controlling any/every way that you cum for him as well as when he allows you to cum.*
Women… I‘m open to speaking with submissive females at this time. I have no preference when it comes to race with women. I just enjoy a woman in the bedroom that truly enjoys being with another woman and enjoys foreplay as much as l do. I think a woman’s body is absolutely beautiful no matter the size all depends on how you represent/carry yourself. I’m looking for women that are open minded for friendship and fun ONLY right now. I love women that are into touch, sensuality, massages, nipple play, being teased, receive oral, give oral, open minded, and wanting some new experiences. I’m not looking to settle down or be in a relationship with just a woman at this time. However trust, understanding, respect, and drama free are a must. If you aren't willing to meet up in person, then don't bother even sending me a message or wasting my time. I'm looking for real experiences not phone play.
l will not act like a young child nor will I engage with anyone sexually that wants or expects me to act like a child. I also do not want to explore anything with anyone who wants to act like they are a child... I'm a grown woman and no offense but that is just not a kink or interest that I want to explore with in any way!!!*
l Have A 0 Tolerance to Close-Mindedness, Lies, Lack Of Respecting Safe Words, Disrespecting Boundaries That Have Been discussed, Faking the Lifestyle, Playing Games, Breaks The Trust We Take The Time To Build, Or Wants Me To Sleep With Multiple Men/Friends For Him in order for me to be his Sub, (that is not what the lifestyle is about at all) who choose not to communicate, And especially anyone that Doesn't Understand The Difference Between Domination And ***!!!
If you are wanting to explore the lifestyle with me then Understand that I expect us to see each other first face to face at a public restaurant, bar, etc to where we can talk in person, make sure our kinks/interests are on the same page, that the vibe/chemistry into our dynamic is on the level we are both wanting.
In my free time… I enjoy reading and writing erotic poetry as well as erotic short stories when time presents itself. I work full time as well as I’m a photographer and have my own photography company. I love taking all kinds of pictures ( I have all my life since l can remember) especially now taking lingerie/boudour photos. I love to make women of all sizes feel the sexiest they have ever felt in beautiful lingerie and capturing the moment that lasts forever. So if you are looking to have some pictures take feel free to message me about pricing.
I'm also a massage therapist so I do enjoy that as one of my many side ventures when I have the availability. I've been told I have magical hands. :) Please private message me on any massage scheduling as well as pricing and please don't be weird. Please note my massages are not free of charge!
l am STD Free I expect the same from anyone I choose to be intimate with in any way. I do get checked regularly and expect the same and can always show my recent results as STD Free.*
If you would like feel this out and message me let's begin a conversation...